别人怎么对你，都是你教的

For every terrible relationship, you are part of the reason. When you complain life is hard and unfair, please ask how you become what you are today? Who has pushed you to this situation? What inner mode do you have that causes you to be treated like this? To improve interpersonal relationship, first you need to see your life mode. 16 behavior patterns, 10 thinking modes and 22 emotional patterns make up your life mode. The reason why we are trapped in one after another plight is related to our life mode. Only after we see and know our mode can we make changes naturally.